Babygirl, in a very small way, you kind of remind me of myself, but lets remind ourselves, I'm 10 years older than you!
I'm currently pregnant and will be a single mother (we broke up again guys :p) I would love a family but that's just not going to happen and I'm not about to settle for just anyone, my baby and your baby deserve the best in life, you and I can give them the best, our best. Lets not invite anyone into their lives until or if that person is worthy enough, this guy is NOT worthy! You are forgetting your only 14, and maybe you're a great mother but your maturity levels are not as good as mine are at 24, that's just facts and I still make mistakes.
I am you in 10 years, in a similar situation. I can see what you should avoid. Had I been 14 and in this situation I may be encouraging you to date him :eek: but I'm 24 and this is a disaster waiting to happen! Keep studying, head down, your on the right track now, keep going!