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  • Jul 7, 2011, 12:59 AM
    adviceishere
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Babygirlx View Post
    Yes i suppose that right and i never thought how many girls feel the same as i do :/ and yes i know i need focus on my exams and my daughter there most impornat things in my life but it hard :) I suppose knowing i have my baby girl to look after should give me hope but somtimes it isit enough.

    Babygirl, in a very small way, you kind of remind me of myself, but lets remind ourselves, I'm 10 years older than you!

    I'm currently pregnant and will be a single mother (we broke up again guys :p) I would love a family but that's just not going to happen and I'm not about to settle for just anyone, my baby and your baby deserve the best in life, you and I can give them the best, our best. Lets not invite anyone into their lives until or if that person is worthy enough, this guy is NOT worthy! You are forgetting your only 14, and maybe you're a great mother but your maturity levels are not as good as mine are at 24, that's just facts and I still make mistakes.

    I am you in 10 years, in a similar situation. I can see what you should avoid. Had I been 14 and in this situation I may be encouraging you to date him :eek: but I'm 24 and this is a disaster waiting to happen! Keep studying, head down, your on the right track now, keep going!
  • Jul 7, 2011, 01:07 AM
    Babygirlx
    Thank you that helped me a lot and I undertstand where everyone coming from and yes both our baby deverseve the best we can give them and I trying so hard just is hard I thinks it like I give all my love to chardonny ( My daughter ) I just want someone to give the love back to me :) Good luck your baby though hope everything OK :) And well maybe he not right for me sooner I relise it maybe better :)
  • Jul 7, 2011, 01:26 AM
    adviceishere
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ;
    I just want somone to give the love back to me

    See that's the best thing about having children, they will always love you no matter what. And thank you for the best wishes.
  • Jul 7, 2011, 01:28 AM
    Babygirlx
    Suppose they do and that all right
  • Jul 7, 2011, 01:30 AM
    amicon

    Please realise ,here and now,that he's very wrong for you.

    Look after yourself and your daughter.
  • Jul 7, 2011, 01:33 AM
    Babygirlx
    Yeah I need focus on my little girl or I going to loose her as well :) and yeah maybe he really wrong for me :)
  • Jul 7, 2011, 01:38 AM
    amicon

    Forget the m a y b e-he IS.
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:00 AM
    Babygirlx
    Ok then I know
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:14 AM
    JamiendGabz
    Couldn't give to **** what you say if she loves me then we should be togther I never told her how I feel but when I see she telling everyone our personal life I don't just want her for sex she gewgress I love her all my heart I want look after her and her daughter she like my own .
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:17 AM
    Babygirlx
    Right jamie I anit having this out wiv you on here yes I do love you with all my heart but maybe there right your to old and I need think of char yano that have this out by text not by this please babee :) xxxxx
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:21 AM
    J_9

    Did you know that creating 2 usernames is against site rules?
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:23 AM
    Curlyben
    JamiednGabz and Babygilrx, I am well aware that you are posting from the SAME COMPUTER.
    This is considered misrepresentation, especially as you can simply TALK to each other rather than posting on these threads.

    You will STOP before you go any further and I remove you BOTH from the site.
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:39 AM
    adviceishere

    Oh my god! Now I've seen it all! That's just sad
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:49 AM
    J_9

    No, it's not cool at all! I'm even betting none of it is true.
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:50 AM
    adviceishere

    I feel so used lol
  • Jul 7, 2011, 02:59 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adviceishere View Post
    oh my god! now i've seen it all! thats just sad

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adviceishere View Post
    i feel so used lol

    We've seen worse. We had one member claim her husband died to get sympathy. And created a phony death certificate when we questioned her. You may notice that sometimes we are skeptical of outlandish stories, because we have been burnt before. We try to give members the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes its clear they are playing games.

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