That's great that there is no real hurry, as things will unfold as they are meant to on their own. LOL, but I can understand when things are going good we tend to want more of it. We humans are like that.

I fully understand what you're saying that is why we plan to wait a few years to be together if there is still an us, which I believe there will be. Yes I know anything could happen, we could change our minds or something could happen to one of us. I understand the reality of things and thank many that care and have some kind of opinion. You have been a great help.Thank you

I know that you are still pointing out the difference in age but I would actually be 59 for the record. You are right, no one does know how many days we have here on earth but that doesn't mean you have to live life like its ending every waking minute. If you find someone you're happy with never pass up the opportunity to be with them. (that is if they aren't taken) Thank you for your input it helps.