I am just the same! I know that is no help but it might make you feel a little better. I am 29 and really want to settle down but after a few dates I start feeling bored and icky and I can't make myself want to stay with them so I start acting like a ***** and pushing them away. I don't WANT to do this. I WANT to get married and have kids. So why can't I stay happy with a guy? I always start thinking what is wrong with them even when I thought they were wonderful just days ago!! It's really horrible and don't just say we are boring or *****es because if we could change we would :( Just tell us how to change. X