I love a man and know I should be treated better or properly w respect

The man has text or email me as his only means to communicate w me... I then let him know via letters, texting or email I care for him and love him very much and want him badly I stated that from his actions or lack thereof he has hurt me I ask him please to be straight up w me and talk face to face with me like an adult only. He says sorry I feel hurt. I said I am a special gal and I choose to be treated as a princess. Like my mom and dad taught me he replies to me only email back he has been hurt twice by others and doesn't choose to treat a woman as a princess ever again he does not like how I've ever put him down verbally. He claims too badly I don't meet his standards. Plus he does not like how I've spoken down in the past to him he hopes I meet my knight in shining armor and be well... So what do you suggest I do going forward?? Forget him and stop any email or texting on my part. He still does not face me. He only emails if at all any response to my feelings of pain from his insults that I responded to. He says he is a friend but does not show anything but saying be well and he wished me luck to find my knight. To me that means he's saying so long young lady. Correct?

I deserve to be treated extra special by a man I am a lovely gal

We have been on off for yrs. Sexually and emotionally he won't move forwards with me. The man has text me only... I then let him know via text and letters I care for him and love him very much I want him badly he has hurt me with his lack of actions I ask him to be straight up w me and talk face to face with me . He says sorry I feel hurt... I reply I am a special gal and I choose to be treated as a princess. He replies email only he has been hurt twice by others and doesn't choose to treat a woman as a princess ever again. He does not like how I've previously put him down verbally. He claims too badly I don't meet his standards. Plus he does not like how I've spoken down to him in the past. He writes an email claiming hopes I meet my knight in shining armor and be well Lisa. Which blows me away so what do you suggest? Do I stop contacting him at all I have asked him to talk w me face to face to discuss anything. He ignores me so now what I chased for5yrs to enjoy life w him so I guess I should just leave him alone I don't deserve to be treated less than beautiful I just wanted to convey that to his face so we could try enjoying life some way or another together appropriately in my book please advise me?? What I should do. How can come out without a broken heart smelling like a rose I am indeed a class act. Am not being treated as such though

You don't need to convey anything. He doesn't find you as attractive as you feel, and he has no interest in pursuing something real with you. It is time to move on, don't talk to him at all.

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Originally Posted by mmresd

You dont't need to convey anything. He doesn't find you as attractive as you feel, and he has no interest in pursuing something real with you. It is time to move on, don't talk to him at all.

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Thank you I feel as though I wasted My time& effort so forget him I gather
Lisa

What a shame life is like this I was never rude to him only him rude to me and animosity comes about but I know I am Classy & Beautiful Its is his Loss so thanks again

I agree... it is best to move on. Stop wasting your time and your effort, and focus those towards things that will move you forward in your life.

]what a shame life is like this I was never rude to himItwas only him rude to me and animosity comes about but I know I am Classy & Beautiful Its is his Loss so thanks again

Would a mans feelings and ego get hurt if a woman text him the following,

"I dont want you, but I need you from time to time."

Would that be considered using someone? How would a man interpret this?

I can't say how I would feel because it would depend on many things and if this is the fellow

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I wouldn't be texting at all. You have already been chasing him for 5 years and its time to let go, he has, unless something has changed. Has it, or are you still mourning your loss?

I would interpret it as a text coming from a woman that does not value me and therefore doesn't deserve my respect. I may come over from that time to time to USE you, but never get emotionally attached, in other words, heaven for me :).

I would consider it selfish and using. I'd tell you to take a hike.

He did!

I would not send him this text. If you are actually committed to this relationship you wouldn't have these texts. Take these feelings as signs to move on.

Hope this helped!



Abby W.

If a man doesn't respond back to your love letter written do you ever communicate with him again?

What are the agres ? What connection or how do you know this man ? Is he in a relationship with someone else ? Just broke up from one ? Have you dated him before ?

I wrote a love letter before, he didn't write back (his friend threw it in the trash) but he still talks to me normally. For guys, it's kind of a surprise when they get a love letter, the feel a teeny bit scared since they don't know who wrote it, talk it out, or if you are shy (like me!) either wait, or use your friends to send messages to him! Hope it helps :) !

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If a man doesn't respond back to your love letter written do you ever communicate with him again?

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NO! You stop this desperate nonsense and get control of yourself. Yes its hard to move on after such a long, and emotional roller coaster relationship, but it has to be done.

Your threads were merged so every body can have the full background and facts, so they won't be confused by your one line questions about the same guy. Pleas keep your responses and questions HERE.

It is time to end this mess