She's 18 and I'm 17.

She's 18 and she crys this often? Are you sure she doesn't have depression?

She does .Me and her live with her cousin cause her parent swere mean to her.

Ladt night I asked my girlfriend to have sex with me and she didn't want too . She said she was scared and it would hurt her. Its our first time she's 18 and I'm 17.

My cousin started crying about her boyfriend . They really love each other but today her boyfriend was mad for some reason he wouldn't hug her or kiss her he wouldn't even hold her when she was feeling sad so I had to go sit beside her and hold her. I want him to stop being mad but I don't know how .

That's normal. Shy personalities usually are afraid. And that's not all. She may be afraid that if she risk giving you her all. You may think different of her. Best thing to do is wait because you are still both young and have so much other things to do and face together. Love grows and when it grows the fear goes. Take your time. You will be glad you did. Let nature take its course.

I made her cry because I yelled and said bad words to her she doesn't like it when I yell at her . I tried to hold her and tell her I was sorry but she pushed me away wouldn't listen. We were talking about her ex boyfriend she didn't want to because he was mean to her.

If she didn't want to talk about her past, why the heck are you yelling at her for it? Obviously she's still emotionally hurt from it, why are you even bringing it up? If she wanted to talk about her past then SHE would bring it up and YOU would listen. You have a lot of apologizing to do. If she hasn't kicked you to the curb yet, that is.

THANKS.
There was nothing about tornadoes.
It was all about Swayze, and I was the first to respond (unlike here).
OP has several posts about crying so someone must have merged and edited Swayze out.
I wish OP would verify this.

In the words of Dave Barry, I Am Not Making This Up.

If you think your mature enough to have a girlfriend then you better learn to act it!! Does it make you feel more like a man to act like mean yelling foul mouth jerk that makes his girlfriend cry. Wow, I bet you just have them lined up to be your girlfriend--NOT!!

You need to back up and take a look at your own behavior. You may not realize it, but you are also being mean to her when you yell at her.

Why in the world do you even want to discuss her ex? That's ridiculous.

She was the one who was talking about him not me because she was thinking about him for some reason .

If it gets to the point that you feel that all you guys do is fight, then its better to end the relationship. Lowering yourself to calling her foul names, screaming,etc are signs that you might want to just move on separately. I know you don't want to hurt her feelings and are frustrated but if you can't stop the fighting you need to make a choice.

Take care

I yelled at her because I didn't want to here about her ex-boyfriend he's gay !

I didn't mean to hurt her. I really do love her and I care about her.