Originally Posted by chuff
I think you can continue the frienships with mutual friends as long as it doesn't get to the point of you talking about her. But if that is what is going to happen then I think you've got to let them go or let them go for the time being so that you can grow.
As far as her dad goes, my gut reaction is to say no. I agree that's a really incredible offer he extended to you but this is your time to heal, not worry about a lasting impression. And let's be honest for him to make that offer means you did leave a lasting impression on him so be happy with that.