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Originally Posted by cmyweb

She doesnt reply to him if shes with me...............
i think she can text him if there friends but not all the time.

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You seem to be contradicting yourself.

One minute she's texting him all the time and him her.

Next you say she doesn't text him when she's with you.

Then how do you know they she texts him all the time? Doesn't make sense to me... maybe I missed something... :confused:

Dude, I learned from personal experience, it is a bad thing.

My EX, when we were together, would text her ex back and forth, but she said she loved me and wanted a future with me, so I let it go.

But what happened in the end? She left me for him.

DO NOT allow her to text her ex, tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and that you want it to end. She is with you and not him, if she can't accept that, then dump her and move on. Because if you allow this to continue, then the probability of her leaving you just gets greater and greater.

Tell her your trust her, but not him, and there texting makes you feel very uncomfortable and you do not like having that feeling. You may only want him as friends, but I think he is after more, and this is just not going to lead to a good situation. So please respect my feelings on this.