Ask Me Help Desk - Is my younger girlfriend using me?

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Originally Posted by TheBartender
Well we talked and she said people on websites don't know what they're talking about

This coming from a 20 year old who has you feeling like you have been used. Everyone else is wrong and she is right, the one thats right was YOU, not her, for feeling used in the first place. Of course she can't let you be right, that would be admitting she is using you, and will use you some more, until she uses you up! And that You were right!!!

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She says if we get married and have a baby things will get much better and she might let me have a threesome

That has never happened, and history of relationships say it gets worse after you marry a user, and have babies with them, they always regret it after its to late!!! Her threesome might be with you and another guy so watch your back, and don't bend over as he probably will have a bigger shlong than you do and will hog all the action. That is if she doesn't just keep him to herself and not tell you until later. GEEEZ GUY!!!!! THINK WITH YOU OTHER HEAD WILL YA!!!

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so I figure I should just grit my teeth as I can tell she loves me and maybe I'm just being sensitive.

Or she is lying thru her teeth, while you grit yours, waiting on that threesome???

ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again.

As already said it will get worse if you marry her.

Prepare to be her dog.

I feel sorry for you. You have major warning signs being smacked across the back of your head and you still aren't paying attention.

Good Luck

I know how you feel. You love her and want to take care of her. She is very attractive and "popular" among her "friends"... and she makes you feel unwanted and worthless except from those occasions when she needs something from you.
Your girlfriend probably suffers from NPD Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She loves herself... only.
She is not likely to change. The only change possible is when she sees and recognizes that her behaviour is not acceptable and that she needs to change.
If you stay in these relationship, prepare yourself for very tough times ahead.
If you get out of it make sure you don´t get into a similar relationship. Find someone who really loves you and sort out yourself esteem. You don´t need to serve someone to feel valued. Someone who really loves you will help you to grow as a person and will take as you are. Take your time to get to know a person before you start a new relationship. See how they talk about and treat other people because that´s the way they will be treating you in the future.