Comment on talaniman's post
Ty we have been married 25 years I did give him back his 20 I have power of attorney if he is unable to look after the finances I have worked full time up till about 2 years ago and all money was pooled then easier for paying bills
Comment on Cat1864's post
His beghaviour was quite apalling he wanted the money ! If I want extra money I have to give a reason - if I spend it on the house for example he wasnts a receipt so he can put it in the budget book cause everything has an allowance
Comment on Jlesnik33's post
Only when it comes to money!! 25 years is a long time to just move on
Lol but ty for your advice I need to get a backbone ty
Comment on Cat1864's post
I ceased FT work 2 years ago I don't get money as a gift I have no family to get money from and I do choose not to ask for something's cause it is a hassle
Comment on Cat1864's post
Ty for your advice and comments I very much appreciate them
Comment on Enigma1999's post
He is very good with money - I didn't expect him to share his inheritance it was his and not mine although if it was the other way around I would nmake sure he was looked after financially and share with him
If he left me I would be better off financially cash in hand with child support and assests, welfare, superannuation and property split - I have only just given up ft work 2 years ago
He wants me to give him all the money so I don't spend it -
Ty for your advice its given me plenty to think about and negotiate with him about so ty
He gave me the 20 that I used to win that money - I gave him back that money but he wants all the money - there was no need for a prenup because I / he never had anything to start with lol lol lol
Comment on Cat1864's post
No he doesn't expect me to account for money that I spend out of my allowance unless I buy something for the house or extra groceries then he will reimburse me, to a point ,but it is such a small amount usually about $50.00 reimbursement
Comment on talaniman's post
Its just his behaviour was so unreasonable I think I was really shocked at the way he behaved and then when other people commented on it - I felt he was being very unreasonable
I have always given him all the money I earned and we both had an allowance and the rest went to pay the bills,savings etc he has plenty of money of his own that he has accesss to only I felt I just wanted to have my own little bit just 4 me/mine
I I was really cheesed off when he wanted the lot - if he hadn't been with me I would not have told him and I would have put the money away
Ty very much for all your advice and suggestions
