>Multiple Threads Merged AGAIN<

blupony, you keep asking about this same subject and the advice (or at least mine) stays the same. Let him and thoughts of him go and move on.

If he is gay, he is gay. If he isn't, then he isn't. It is not your business.

While you may be attracted to him, it doesn't mean you have act or want to act on that attraction. I am certain there are other available men who you would be attracted to if you gave yourself a chance.

OMG!! I can't believe you have nearly been tripping on your attraction with this guy for a year?!

Something is not healthy about this situation. Its YOU!! Get help.

Give it up... move on... only fools date people they work with anyway. Because when the breakup comes... and it always does, its going to be ugly... real ugly and someone is going to end up fired. Probibly you since you seem to have an unhealthy obsession with this guy and others can and do see it.

In the 30 years I've had a real job... not once have I ever seen anything good come from an office romance.

Take the advice... its not going to change no matter HOW MANY times you keep asking it.