Dear Rol,

Thank you soooo much for all this advice...
I shall do exactly how you told me.. Dinner is at a restaurant near his home really. I will keep you posted... :)

You are welcome singy,
Keep us posted.

Remember keep one step behind him, and keep things slowwwwww

Here is what happened... We met and had a really nice dinner. Did not talk anything about our relationship, his girlfriend just general things - we laughed a lot. It was nice and when it was time to go home he said we should do it again... And asked me to text him when I got home. I did - bit late - and towards the morning he texted me " it was nice we should do it again kisses" I texted him we shuld have risotto next time. And surprisingly we texted at around 6 o clock in the morning couple of times general stuff about food and all. After couple of times I stopped. Because I did not want to seem like I was all over him. Then again this afternoon he is texting me about coffee, and how he made them etc. We have been texting each other - just general stuff. Overall it is nice. I expected more I admit but taking things slowly both of us...

So, what do you think?

Hi Singy,
I would not expect anything more for a long time... you both need to go slow now, you have a past and YOU need to keep uncertain about him, don't start to go ahead of him and thinking it will lead to more.
Be the one to end the converations, leave first , don't answer all his calls or messages, let him see you have a life and are fine without him in it.
Right now he could be just seeing you as a friend(although I doubt it) but he is still a CONFUSED man.
If he wants to see you this week or next week, do not, tell him you are quite busy. Wait about 3-4 weeks before seeing him again.