Cancel it.

Make him go do something, then get all your things together and make a call to cancel the utiity. You can do this!

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Originally Posted by jillybean187

im slightly worried how he will take the news. im at familys house taking care of them after a surgery, he refused to come with me. i still need to get the rest of my stuff i want to do this when he and his mom are not there but he doesnt have a job so i am never sure when he will be there. he usually changes the subject if i ask when we talk which is rare now. probably has a cyber date or something:(

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Are you afraid that he'll become violent? If you're worried about his reaction, or even the reaction his mother will have, then by all means have someone go with you. Do you have a BIG brother or a BIG friend? Take a couple of girlfriends.

And as far as the utility, why pay to heat or bathe him when he's using you as his "ace in the hole"? Get mad and get out.

I hate to compare relationships with shopping, but here it goes. When a real man has what he's shopping for in the buggy, he's ready to check out. That's what happens when we find the girl of our dreams, the one for us. Eyes on the exit, ready to go. That's it, we're done.

Not THIS type of guy. He already has his prize in the buggy, but he's still slowly walking the isles, looking for something "better", or "new and improved". He is keeping you at the bottom of the cart, covered up even, while he's shopping for other girls. This kind of guy probably thinks he deserves a harem of ladies. They should be happy to be with him. In reality he's just a punk liar who tries to make you question your own judgement, and feelings. And there is no "double standard" by the way. Cheating is cheating.

He'll never respect you. You're his property, not his soulmate.


Have no doubt about what you're going to do, and stick with it. Don't let anyone change your mind, or influence your decision.

Good luck and God bless.

Go be happy and whole.

This sounds like him when he is shopping. Its nice to realize I get less attention then which shirt he wants to buy. I know what I need to do and it will be over by the end of the week.