As long as you have accepted this is the end of the relationship and you don't expect a response, it's OK.
You probably should not be corresponding with him on a regular basis. You need time to heal.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

As long as you have accepted this is the end of the relationship and you don't expect a response, it's OK.
You probably should not be corresponding with him on a regular basis. You need time to heal.

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I haven't accepted its over because of the way he's acting is telling me there's still summit there... want him back... need help to get him back...

I asked him when he stoped loving me and he said that he never had he only told himself he had. He also said he was happy whilst we were snuggling up and that he would miss me when I move in with my nan (today
How is this saying there is something there.
He does not feel for you what you feel for him.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I asked him when he stoped loving me and he said that he never had he only told himself he had. He also said he was happy whilst we were snuggling up and that he would miss me when I move in with my nan (today
How is this saying there is something there.
He does not feel for you what you feel for him.

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He said that he still loves me and that he will miss me :/

You have been a part of his life for 21 months so of course he will miss you. But he has still said he only wants to be your friend.
You need to get yourself together and that means getting on with your life, coping with your life without him.
As long as you are hanging on to hope with him you are not healing and taking care of your problems.

Move out. Deal with your problems on your own so that YOU know you are strong enough to make the changes you need to make and to LIVE with them on a day to day basis.

Do not allow him to use you as teddy bear to hold for his comfort when he wants and to discard when he is feeling too grown up for a cuddle buddy. Yes, he is using you and your feelings for him when he climbs in your bed after dumping you. Moving out should stop that nonsense.

I know you feel strongly about him and you want him to feel that way too. However, you need to deal with reality right now not dreams and false hopes. Reality is that a relationship between the two of you is not possible at this time. Too much anger and hurt. Too many fights. Learn how to let all of that go and better ways to communicate. Learn how to practice those skills.