Our children are young,and my older child is 9. We didn't act like a couple in front of the kids.. We did kid things. My older daughter knew him from when we worked together so it wasn't odd for us to "bump" into each other at the kid places. I just feel the need to tell him tha I am sorry for not handling things well when he ended it.. (I didn't go completley bezerk) I just pretty much wanted to talk in person, so I wrote a few emails and made a couple phone calls, but still I feel like a bit of an idiot for not just letting it go. I don't know if I should try to talk to him and explain my feelings about how I reacted or just let it go... and no I don't think I was clingy, I was supportive of his situation and he was also supportive of mine.. He also walked away from his other x after 10 years without much closure either so I guess that should have been a red flag...