I think you fell for someone who had not yet showed his true colours,the comment about his ex only shows that he still had baggage.

Your right 23 is not a child,and yes I would have some questions about the comment,I would not be happy at all,BUT you did apoligise,and he was not willing to accept it,or discuss it,there's the difference between a mature adult and manchild.

5 months is not that long,and at 40 I would think as you that this is a grown man he's not about to act like a horney teenage boy... but alas,that's how it went.

Try and pick yourself up,this one is over and you have learnt a valuable lesson.

There will be another chance for love.

The point I was trying to make was this if he isn't uncomfortable with a young lady making comments about him "feeling her up" I would be a little upset.

Also have you talked with his "ex" he broke up with about his reason. You said he broke up with her for the same thing... looking at his private things?

I think if my husband had Facebook and I looked on it and saw some young 23 year old making those comments.. I would be ticked.

Get your camera back and leave him alone. If he loves you he'll come back.

I have not contacted him in 2 weeks, and I sent a letter just asking for my camera back and at this point its all that I want... since he was supposed to buy it from me... I am a single mom and really needed it to buy school clothes for my little daughter... it really has hurt me financially and that is so cruel to keep it especially when he makes 6 figures.

I hope you get your camera back.
What he did was pretty childish but I thought you both were wrong. To approach this girl on his page was a bit much, but he wasn't upset about her posting this, that tells you something about him as well.
You live and learn.
You might check to see if there is any legal recourse for getting your camera back.

If you know where he works call and tell him you want the camera or the money. It's hard to be a single mother and I would tell him, "Since you're so concerned about your privacy if you don't return my camera, I will come to where you work to pick it or the money up.. Just a thought!

Yes, I profusely apologized and he said he still loved me and wanted to make it work... he said all of his friends chided him about it.. then the next day came.. he called me and said he would come down... then he just never did... never called texted anything. The only contact I have had with him sense was to ask for my camera... with it not being returned... I just don't get it... I thought he had more integrity than to keep an expensive piece of equipment.

He's a jerk and you might have a fight on your hands in regards to your camera.

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Yes, I profusely apologized and he said he still loved me and wanted to make it work...he said all of his friends chided him about it ..then the next day came..he called me and said he would come down...then he just never did...never called texted anything. The only contact I have had with him sense was to ask for my camera...with it not being returned...I just dont get it...I thought he had more integrity than to keep an expensive piece of equipment.

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I'm sorry about your pain, but really call and tell him or leave a voicemail and lay down the rules about the camera. I think the girl may have wanted to embarrass him and you. I'm really sorry.

I am sorry to hear that. Sounds like he is a total jerk.. however I agree with homegirl50 u both are wrong here.. don't get overly concern with what he said to you previously (loves u, wants to make it work.. etc).. he is more like an all talk guy than anything...

About the camera I would try to contact him again and nicely say the only thing you want from him at this point is the camera that is yours and if he doesn't have the decency to return it back to you within a week then you might have to make a trip to show up at his work place to pick it up...

Yes, I am giving him until Friday and then I will try to talk to him about it. Really at this point he has shown me that he really is very mean. Even if I say I am going to show up that won't make him bring it.:( Thanks for all the good advice.

Check with your local law enforcement and see if you have any recourse

Small claims court, get your camera, and have no more to do with him!

Listen to yourself. Get in check. Yo.

Forget this guy, your camera, his booty calls & lies.

Never talk to him again. Move on.

It's your camera and he said he would buy it. Get it back and leave him alone.

It's your property and you have a daughter who need things. Get the camera back or the $800.