NJCutie... you aren't thinking clearly. Truly if he was sincere about getting well... would he not listen to his doctors and taken his OCD meds as prescribed? Would he be denouncing the doctor's diagnosis about bipolar? Wouldn't he be pursuing everything possible? Is he so sick he is incapable of comparing his life with another's and therefore figuring out there is something wrong? You are really at a loss here to see where the line is because you just can't relate to someone being that ill. That is understandable. BUT you are refuting the view of someone who has been that ill or worse, which sounds a little crazy too, doesn't it? The bottom line is--- his crazy is what it is and you would have HAD to accept it entirely in order to go along for the ride, which if you'd done that one of two things would happen: made you as sick as he or made it necessary for you to leave. Guaranteed.Quote:
Originally Posted by NJCUTIE77
And here is a measure of how crazy it was with you both: OCD is considered far more "crazy" than bipolar and yet he managed to get you to believe that was a legitimate thing to believe! See -- any excuse will do when you don't know how it works. I don't know how many ways I can repackage this for you but he really is just too sick to have a relationship with and you'll have to accept that or be crazy yourself. I can't tell you anything more. I suggest you accept it.