Originally Posted by
dcl66
I really don't think she used me, I asked her from the beginning of our relationship if she was over her ex and she honestly told me she was. I don't think she realized she was not over him until he showed up at her work. She said the feelings for him just came back. I know whatever she felt was very strong. She is still today trying to figure out if she still wants to go back to him or not. She is still not sure. I made her promise me to let me know what her final decision is-him, me or alone. She promised she would let me know. She had never lied to me before and I don't think she will. She knows I am innocent in this and that it's all her fault. I'm not trying to defend her, just stating the facts.