Pretty harmless in the grand scale of things

Don't sweat it, do better next time. Belated birthday wishes Gemini Guy :)

Hi again,

GF and I broke up about 1.5 month already, I started on NC for 3 weeks now. Yesterday she emailed me asking me to tell her how much she owe me for cellphone bill, because we are on Family Plan. She said she wants to mail me a check. But I have decided to not ask for it, since when she moved out, she left some furniture and stuff that we bought together, I wanted to pay her back by paying for the phone bill until our contract is up. I don't want to email her back, because I don't want to break NC.

I need advice here.

Handling your business, is not breaking NC. Talking about the relationship that was is.

During couple days, that guy who was flirting with my ex messaged me twice on Facebook. Apparently, they went out for a month, (at least he claim.) he told me she broke up with him after a month, and told me apparently he wasn't good enough to her to marry either.

Then next day, he messaged me told me that they went to camping together, and told me not to be sad that what kind girl she is. And gave me a link of their camping pictures.

I did not return his message, but kind of bothered by his words and action.

Block his access to you, and don't sweat it. Come on marriage after a month?? Stay with the NC, and let the disrupting thoughts pass.

Yeah, because my ex and I were talking about getting married the whole time.

Sucks I know.

Talaniman, what do you this of his purpose?
1) trying to piss me off? 2) he felt the pain? (even though he was the one flirting and patiently waiting for us to break up) 3)He is playing game?

It can only be a game to further his agenda, whatever that is.

I think you need to not acknowledge either of them. If he is the 30 year old, he is too old for that kind of mess and she is immature herself. Maybe she sent that to you and not he.
At any rate, neither of them are worth the bother.

Thanks Homegirl50 and talaniman.