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Originally Posted by positiveparent

I can understand you feel hurt, but shes told you theres no hope for you and her, if you arent already in NC then do so now, youll get over her, in time these things take time but while youre hanging around her like a love sick puppy all youll feel is hurt.

Get on with your life, go out meet other people, the internet is ruining the once fine art of relationships.

Really you need to go NC, and stick to it, you will not begin to recover until you do.

Youre chasing a lost cause.

Shes not going to miraculously change her mind shes made it clear she doesnt want to...

Be good to yourself. Go NC. NOW!!

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What is NC?

Thanks guys. Very much appreciated.

NC means No Contact, and its done by stopping all means of communications with her, and that means all, so you can get over the shock, and disappointment, of a break up, and all the feelings that go with them. That gives you a chance to rebuild your own life and enjoy doing your own think without her.

You can get your dignity, and self respect back by, getting off the pity pot, and doing things for yourself, and not have your whole life wrapped around HER!!

Break ups happen to us ALL, and we ALL ,make mistakes, but we grow and learn from them, and are better for it. Sucks for sure, and hurts like hell, but we grow beyond that. So will you in time.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

NC means No Contact, and its done by stopping all means of communications with her, and that means all, so you can get over the shock, and disappointment, of a break up, and all the feelings that go with them. That gives you a chance to rebuild your own life and enjoy doing your own think without her.

You can get your dignity, and self respect back by, getting off the pity pot, and doing things for yourself, and not have your whole life wrapped around HER!!

Break ups happen to us ALL, and we ALL ,make mistakes, but we grow and learn from them, and are better for it. Sucks for sure, and hurts like hell, but we grow beyond that. So will you in time.

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NC is what you should be doing.

Honestly.. if you want her back.. don't talk to her at all.. completely write her out of you life.. if you have her number in you phone, change her name to DoNotCallOrTxt... so when you look at it, you'll think twice.. she is so dumb to do this.. emails that were sent before her, are your own business.. its not your fault and you should never have to apologize for something that she isn't apart of.. I know it is hard, and will be hard to not talk to her, but you need to get a rebound for now... or you need to do something to keep your mind off it.. go to the gym or something... get a little buff and shell probably come crawling back..
Hope this helps..