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  • Jun 1, 2010, 12:59 AM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by purchasing01 View Post
    altenweg, it has not been a dream of mine to go drive the big trucks in the mines but i think i would like to as there is big dollars to be made, and i love my girlfriend a lot so i think i would like to move with her to keep the ball rolling if you get what i mean

    How long until she moves there?

    Have you two discussed where you'll live? If you'll live together? How you'll pay for things etc?

    You said your parents were against it, but is it only because they don't want you to leave, or is it because they don't want you settling down too soon?

    How about her parents? How would they feel about it?

    Personally I understand why you'd want to move, and being with her is of course a great motivator, but make sure that it's what you both want before you pack your bags. Also talk to your parents about it, listen to their concerns.

    It's time for me to go tonight, but I'll be back tomorrow, so if you have any more questions, I'll see them tomorrow and I'll answer them the best I can then.

    Have a great night. :)
  • Jun 1, 2010, 01:07 AM
    purchasing01

    She is not sure if she will defnitally move yet, it could be 3 years away,
    We would either rent or live in her parents house which they are currently building, no all mum said to me is money is not the only thing is it, and she was getting at family is more important,

    Her mum has already told me there is a room there for me if I want it :)

    p.s my mum is a negative person a lot of the time



    Thanks for all your time this evening, you have been great and deserve a medal :) I look forward to hearing from you
  • Jun 1, 2010, 01:11 AM
    purchasing01

    We have already been going strong for 3 years


    Altenweg, also I would miss my friends, if I moved to perth well I'm only really close to one friend,
    What I see is that I'm only a phone call away or a plane trip home, my best mate at work who is 58years old thinks I should go to the mines in perth for a few years receiving about $100,000 a year then buy a house, then I am sorted for life, he usually knows what he is talking about to

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