When I think about the bad things it really helps. Like when I think about who he is currently. Its just that his memories come sometimes too. When he was the one supporter of my life. You know?

Those memories will fade with time.
Focus on you and moving forward.

Quit telling yourself not to get over him. And just do it.
It may be tough, but in the long run it's good for you.



If you love something, set it free... if it comes back it was meant to be ;)

He's not the same person he is today as before. So in fact, you're thinking about someone else.

I'm going to go against the current though.

Instead of thinking about good or bad things about him, why not think about something completely different? Distract yourself from thinking about him.

The problem is, if you're thinking about good or bad things about him, it will lead to other good or bad thoughts. Maybe when you've completely healed from the break up, you can reflect on the relationship again. But for now, any type of thoughts only prolongs the recovery process.

There's got to be better things to do with your time rather than dwelling on the break up.

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This has happened many times.. I hate him when he does this. But then, he always comes back to me after. I'm a rebound girl. I need to get over him. But I cant. I really... try though.

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this has happened many times.. i hate him when he does this.

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He's not doing anything. You are allowing it. You are ignoring your own power.

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but then, he always comes back to me

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Because you always accept him back.

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im a rebound girl.

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While start seeing yourself as girl that more then that.

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i need to get over him. but i cant. i really...try though.

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I have a scab I keep picking. It needs to heal but I don't stop picking at it. Can you help me?

Take control of your own life and don't allow him to treat you like crap. They always say that people treat you how you let them treat you.

You don't deserve this jerk in your life. You deserve a guy that loves and respects you.