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Originally Posted by NICKST3R

I really don't think I'll be able to just cut her out of my life just like that... I need an answer from her. Next time she texts me and I don't respond, she will get a little angry. From there I was thinking of just being blunt w/her and saying "You said you wanted ur space. I backed off and now you want to text me every day? I still like you, but I think you need to figure out if you want me in your life." She's getting the best of both worlds right now. She still gets to keep me close but not THAT close... and that's just not fair to me.

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I dare you to reply to her next text, or call, with such blunt honesty!! :eek:

dude people here are already giving you a very good advice. I know how you feel, the feeling when your heart jumps when you receive a text from her, a feeling of happiness and hope thinking to yourself that, if she is not interested then why is she texting. Nothing ever do make sense when you are in the emotional side of the relationship, the more you allow her to make you feel the way you are feeling, the more power she gets. When I was in your situation, people here gave me one of the best advice and it goes something like this. FOR YOU BEING THERE FOR HER, YOUR ACTUALLY MAKING HER GET OVER YOU FASTER. that means you answering to her text your actually making her move even faster. She will text you when she feels lonely, alone, but once something like her friends or guys or even an activity she is doing replaces the feeling of loneliness then she doesn't text you. Dude find your B*^% and use it, your letting this girl run your emotion and you two had only been together for 3 months.

3 months is not even enough time to get to know a person, but she had already made up her mind that YOUR NOT FOR HER. Cause if you were for her, then why aren't you by her side?

let this one go I know its hard but its going to save you a lot of heart ache for the future.
1. she will only txt you when she has nothing to do, or feel lonely
2. she wants to keep you hanging until she sees that the grass is greener on the other side.
3. she wants to know that you are always available, and when you do try to ignore her, she gets mad and let you know that she is the boss.

And you're really miserable when she is out having a good time without you. Worse, If she gets a whiff of you having a good time, then she will really be mad at you. This will lead to more confusion on your part. But that's the idea, because she isn't ready for YOU to move on without her. But she wants no more romance from you though, so how whack is that?

Things are still a little weird between us. We barely talk anymore and there's an unspoken awkwardness now... I'm giving her the "space" that she wanted and I'm just seeing how things play out. I'm still completely lost and the past couple weeks have been incredibly rough. I'm always anxious and when I see her in class I just feel depressed knowing that things aren't the way they used to be. She still texts me but not nearly as often.

I think you need to realise that this is over and start moving on.

So ignore her texts and start living your own life again.