Yes I also agree that it is because we let them.
Once they start they think they have some power and this makes them feel better.
I also think if you like playing games with the one who cares for you it means you got very low self-esteem.

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Hey guys, I want some ideas of things that I can do or not do to win my ex girlfriend back. We broke up a month ago and she got a boyfriend a week ago. Now I just want to know what can I do while she's with the other guy and what should I not do while she's with him if I want her back. Her and I went out for 5 months

Hey soccerfreak, just go NO CONTACT and move on, she had already, its not worth your pain waiting for someone that's not worth your while. She doesn't love you. Keep yourself busy and just be happy that it wasn't 2 yrs in the relationship.

How did you guys broke up, and who initiated the break up? Question to answer so we can give you better advice.

You leave her alone, and do your own thing.

Get on with your own life and leave her to live hers.

It was a mutual break up because we both wanted to have a little more space and it was more of a break and even she said that. She said that we were still going out but without the whole kissing and all the stuff that comes with a relationship. And I brought it up

She has a boyfriend.

Move on-please.

Leave her alone, as she is to busy with the new guy to have time for you. She has other interests in her life, so should you. What are you going to wait for your turn to come around again? That would be plain crazy.

You better start standing for something else besides her, or you will fall for anything she says, or does, waste a lot of time with it, and be confused and miserable on top of all that. Like you seem to be now.

You live and learn!!