If letting her cool off after a fight makes you a puddle on the floor... I have serious concerns about what would happen if you actually lived with a p!ssed off mate.

Sounds like you are way too off balance here.

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Originally Posted by rrakesh85

i had a fight with my girlfrnd and she asked me to leave her alone for a while and also she asked me to not to call her untill she calls me. what do i need to do in this case ?
will she come back to me?

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It's a tough time to go through...
Okay,you had a fight with her and she told you to stay away till she calls you.That is her wish. It is true that you have to respect her wish.But... but,love being what it is,you are craving to talk to her and share those moments.I can't tell you what is going through her head or if she will call you back.But I can tell you that you should not fail to make her know how you feel before letting her alone.
If I were you,I will send her a text and express how I feel.Atleast,it's a text... not a call.When you have done this,then you can let her be and see what happens.If after hearing the sorrow of your heart,she doesn't call you,then maybe you really need to let go.
I hope it works for you.
Good luck.

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Its a tough time to go through...
Okay,you had a fight with her and she told you to stay away till she calls you.That is her wish. It is true that you have to respect her wish.But...but,love being what it is,you are craving to talk to her and share those moments.I can't tell you what is going through her head or if she will call you back.But I can tell you that you should not fail to make her know how you feel before letting her alone.
If I were you,I will send her a text and express how I feel.Atleast,its a text...not a call.When you have done this,then you can let her be and see what happens.If after hearing the sorrow of your heart,she doesn't call you,then maybe you really need to let go.
I hope it works for you.
Good luck.

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Ya sure I agree with your point, and also I have sent a mail today to her...
Let me wait till she reads my mail..

After a big breakup I started to speak wit my girlfrnd yesterday, but still she is speaking like a enemy,how can I make her cool & love me back and how can I make her to forget past, more than that I am out country now... help me..

What caused the break up?

How old are you both?
And why did you break up?

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What caused the break up?

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Our relationship was good till 2 weeks before,
Suddenly she said that stop calling me for a while until she calls me without any reason. But I donot have patience to wait so I have called her again and again she used to switched off and disconnect the call.and said she donot want me any more becoze I am torturing her by calling her.

After a week I have called her yesterday she pickedup the call and she spoke. Her voice is good but they way she speak is kind of still angry on me.. help me how to proceed with this...

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Originally Posted by amicon

How old are you both?
And why did you break up?

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I am 25 and she is 24..

Our relationship was good till 2 weeks before,
Suddenly she said that stop calling me for a while until she calls me without any reason. But I donot have patience to wait so I have called her again and again she used to switched off and disconnect the call.and said she donot want me any more becoze I am torturing her by calling her.

After a week I have called her yesterday she pickedup the call and she spoke. Her voice is good but they way she speak is kind of still angry on me.. help me how to proceed with this...

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Originally Posted by rrakesh85

i am 25 and she is 24..

our relationship was good till 2 weeks before,
suddenly she said that stop calling me for a while untill she calls me without any reason. but i donot have patience to wait so i have called her again and again she used to switched off and disconnect the call.and said she donot want me any more becoze i am torturing her by calling her.

after a week i have called her yesterday she pickedup the call and she spoke. her voice is good but they way she speak is kind of still angry on me.. help me how to proceed with this...

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What happened to cause the breakup?

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What happened to cause the breakup?

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Just a simple that I am calling her often. She thought I am disturbing her..
She said that my call is irritating her.. this is the reason

Look,you need to back off and leave her alone-starting a new thread isn't going to give you different answers.

You respect her wishes and stop calling her.

Yea give the girl space man. Women hate a clingy needy guy. Back off and do your own thing... how long were you two together?

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Yea give the girl space man. Women hate a clingy needy guy. Back off and do your own thing....how long were you two together?

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Past 6 months

How do you get her to stop speaking like your enemy and be cool with you? That's simple! Respect her wishes and leave her alone, stop calling her! Every phone call you make to her, makes her more annoyed with you and perhaps dislike you more!
You have to leave her alone.

At 6 months dude, just back off. In my honest (and maybe harsh) opinion, you guys owe each other nothing, as 6 months feels like a long time, it isn't in the grand scheme of things. Show her you don't need her, and live your life with... yep you guessed it... no contact

Move on with your Life! Good Luck

Too much drama, and trouble for an online long distance relationship. Geez guy you haven't even met her in person, I mean you act like she is the only female for you, but maybe try others, live ones even.

Have you sent her money, or expensive gifts or something?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

To much drama, and trouble for an online long distance relationship. Geez guy you haven't even met her in person, I mean you act like she is the only female for you, but maybe try others, live ones even.

Have you sent her money, or expensive gifts or something?

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I'm not a fortune teller, but I don't see a future for you with this girl! How do you fall in love with someone you've never met?:eek:

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To much drama, and trouble for an online long distance relationship. Geez guy you haven't even met her in person, I mean you act like she is the only female for you, but maybe try others, live ones even.

Have you sent her money, or expensive gifts or something?

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No I didn't sent any money and gift, even she used to say I don't want any gift , just I need you in her life.

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How do you get her to stop speaking like your enemy and be cool with you? Thats simple! Respect her wishes and leave her alone, stop calling her! Every phone call you make to her, makes her more annoyed with you and perhaps dislike you more!
You have to leave her alone.

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You I agree with this, but unable to forget her also I feel to speak to her.

Do and respect what she said to you and immediately try to make yourself busy with your own business.She may come back to u but if not bear it up what so ever. Because u have to live first.