So I shouldn't nc her? Also, I've tried to talk to her after we broke up and sometimes she replied, sometimes she didn't, but she said she needed space. I told her I would do anything for her. The thing is she doesn't know where she will be either. She's working a temp job right now and if she doesn't find a job out in ca in the next couple of months she'll probably have to go back to ny for a little and work with her father

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by nycali

so i shouldn't nc her? also, i've tried to talk to her after we broke up and sometimes she replied, sometimes she didn't, but she said she needed space. i told her i would do anything for her. the thing is she doesn't know where she will be either. she's working a temp job right now and if she doesn't find a job out in ca in the next couple of months she'll probably have to go back to ny for a little and work with her father

---

Time and distance is what you need. This will work out for the best.:p

I'm hoping that time apart will do us good, when this happened the first time we broke up the time apart helped out with a lot of things, but I mean I really don't know what will happen. She told her friends that I know that she thinks its what's best for us in the long run and that she didn't know if she wanted to be with other people or not, which I guess is better than her saying that she wants to be with other people


But then again, all of our mutual friends who know her pretty well have said that they think that she just needs some time because she's really confused about everything going on and will realize soon that she's made a mistake

I hope this works out for you and I hope it's with this girl if it's meant to be! Just give it time!

Thanks, I hope it works out too, I appreciate all of the advice though, but at the same time it's still killing me not knowing everything that will happen

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by nycali

thanks, i hope it works out too, i appreciate all of the advice though, but at the same time it's still killing me not knowing everything that will happen

---

Sweetie.. none of us know that! That's why you live your life and try to be happy with or without this girl. Focus on what a nice young man you are and how much you have to offer! There is a purpose to everything!:)

Time and space is good since neither of you knows what your going to do next as individuals.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by nycali
Thanks, I hope it works out too, I appreciate all of the advice though, but at the same time it's still killing me not knowing everything that will happen

---

LOL, I am a lot older than you, but have that same problem. I guess that will never change, so get use to it, and do your best.

Sometimes, that's ALL you CAN do.