Originally Posted by SouthernBelle06
Hey thanks for your replies everyone. I appreciate the support as I have been feeling lousy about all of this. I really did love this guy at one time. I do still care for him somewhat or else his living arrangement wouldn't hurt me. I will admit to that.
You know, I have read a lot of posts here and I alway see that no contact is the way to go after one is dumped, but I am finding myself full of questions and regrets now in the way I handled my situation because I feel that I did try no contact here and I lost him anyway. He simply forgot me and moved on to someone else. I almost feel as if my no contact just cleared me out of the way for him to fall in love with her. I guess all of this just threw me and brought a lot of hurt feelings and regrets back for me. I wonder if I should have handled things differently?
I always diligently let him know I didn't want to do the friends thing and I feel that it obviously didn't help me any. When he would contact me after every few months, I would act fine, never act needy, never ask to reconcile, never beg. I am just feeling bummed and full of regret I think. I feel that it should have been me living there with him as we had made plans for that this time last year. Thanks again for listening everyone.