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  • Dec 21, 2009, 02:08 AM
    sandalwood7

    This is absolultely normal. It is what you do in waking life that is more important.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 08:53 AM
    redhed35

    Its perfectly normal and natural.
    You can't help what your subconcious brings to the surface when you dream.

    It does not make you a bad boyfriend,acting out those dreans with someone other then your girlfriend does.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 09:05 AM
    talaniman

    That's what guys dream about, its natural. Just don't try to make your dreams come true in real life.

    I doubt your girl would like that.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 09:21 AM
    HellHound82

    Maybe the point of the dream wasn't that you wanted sojmeone else, maybe it was just wanting something new, whatever u did in the dream try it with your girlfriend
  • Dec 21, 2009, 12:41 PM
    Romefalls19

    It's natural, I dream about Taylor Swift, Sophia Bush, and others all the time. Everybody does it, doesn't mean anything though
  • Dec 21, 2009, 12:48 PM
    adam_89

    I have dreams all the time like that. It is completely natural and you shouldn't worry about a thing. If you sleep with her at night any just hope you don't talk in your sleep or it could be worse.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:06 PM
    topher

    It's weird because in some of these dreams I can give you the name of the girl, some one I went to high school with, that was about seven years ago.
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:09 PM
    Alty

    Totally natural. Just fyi, girls do it too.

    I dream about other guys all the time. Oh the fun I have. :) ;)

    It's a dream, you can't control it anymore then you can control your breathing. It's a part of life.

    Enjoy. The dream world is a wonderful place, but, it's what you do in reality that really counts.

    :)
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:11 PM
    topher

    Ooooookkkkk but if I get in trouble... LOL
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:14 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by topher View Post
    ooooookkkkk but if i get in trouble.... LOL

    What happens in your dreams, stays in your dreams. It's a lot like Vegas. ;)

    Just don't tell. Your dreams are your own, they don't belong to anyone else.

    Heck, I could write you a book about what Vin Diesel and I do in my dreams. It would be X rated, and well worth the price. ;)
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:17 PM
    topher

    I'm just really curious now, why do I have these dreams about people that I have met in the past. Was because I was the loaner and didn't have any friends, now I'm really curious LOL
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:19 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by topher View Post
    I'm just really curious now, why do I have these dreams about people that I have met in the past. Was because I was the loaner and didn't have any friends, now I'm really curious LOL

    I have no idea.

    Heck, I dream about people that I haven't talked to in 20 years. There's no reason, they just pop in. Darn people. ;)

    If it's a good dream, enjoy. People that dream live longer. Really! :)
  • Dec 21, 2009, 10:37 PM
    ohsohappy

    Sometimes I have dreams about random guys, and sometimes it makes me kind of feel guilty, but I realized that I'm human, and I can control myself, If I don't act like that for real, then there's no reason to feel bad. Dreams are never exactly what they seem, and the people in your dreams usually represent a person you're acquainted with, an aspect of yourself, or a situation you are in, and the circumstances of the dreams are the same as well, dreams are not literal.
  • Dec 22, 2009, 06:08 AM
    slapshot_oi
    Read the Interpretation of Dreams by Freud.
  • Dec 22, 2009, 06:23 AM
    Romefalls19

    T Swift is 18 now ha ha and of course Alty I dream of you but I didn't want to call you out on it:P

    Just keep your dreams to yourself and you will be fine
  • Jan 26, 2010, 07:30 PM
    topher
    Issues with my family
    So my sister and dad like to think they know what's best for everyone and like to make head comments about what ever want. I couldn't care less I've just learned to ignore it, not worth my effort, but the girlfriend is getting pretty fed up with some of the comments. I'm just not sure what to do.
  • Jan 26, 2010, 07:35 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Your girlfriend, his, or your sister's?
  • Jan 26, 2010, 07:37 PM
    topher

    My girlfriend
  • Jan 26, 2010, 07:45 PM
    roxypox

    Is this an option:
    To tell them to stop it? Or at lest tone it down?

    How old are you guys by the way?
  • Jan 26, 2010, 07:46 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Don't take girlfriend around them

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