Better to find out this opposite didn't work before you lost your business and half of everything you own!

He does sound like the "bad-boy" type, but there's nothing you can do about her choices. As much as you'd hate it, you could run into them together sometime. Since you admit to being and acting like an adult, if you happen to run into the two of them together, smile and re-introduce yourself to the guy. Just say, "Nice to meet you," and "Good to see you" to your ex. Then end the conversation quickly and move on. Good luck!

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No one makes you feel anything. It is how you react and respond that determines your emotions. - Brian Tracy

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Originally Posted by neverme

To be honest I don't even think he's worth your time to think about anymore. He seems like a little boy that's still trying to work out his teenage angst!

And your ex fell hook, line and sinker for the 'I'm so hurt and confused' act. Your better than theses silly games.

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Thanks neverme, Ill bet she did. I am trying not to think about him anymore.

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Originally Posted by Devorameira

He does sound like the "bad-boy" type, but there's nothing you can do about her choices. As much as you'd hate it, you could run into them together sometime. Since you admit to being and acting like an adult, if you happen to run into the two of them together, smile and re-introduce yourself to the guy. Just say, "Nice to meet you," and "Good to see you" to your ex. Then end the conversation quickly and move on. Good luck!

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No one makes you feel anything. It is how you react and respond that determines your emotions. - Brian Tracy

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There is nothing bad boyish about a 22 year old crying hippie that can't control his temper and lives with mommy and daddy. Sorry, my opinion but who knows. I love your line though, about introducing myself to him :) I will definitely consider doing that if I run into them. Thanks for the advise.

I would greet them with a big smile. Say "Hey There!" and keep walking. No need to hang around. No need for rudeness. Just like water off a ducks back.

Well... it happened... On my way home from work I always drive by my favorite oriental restaurant (we used to go there all the time together) yesterday as I drove by I saw her car. I had to look (against my better judgement) and see who was with her. Sure as s*** was that guy. I just kept driving getting madder all the way home. Ive felt sick to my stomach since I saw her. Before yesterday I had done great, no contact, and I hadn't seen her. Now I'm just sick...

You will get over that feeling,do something to take your mind off it.
Now it's happened you're over that first hurdle.

Good riddance!

First challenge, passed. Think of it that way

Yep you've done quite well. Get it all out of your system now, because you don't want to turn into a dumb sh*t like that other guy who goes into places and starts fights with exes, yadda yadda. As all other people have stated, best that you saw her true colors now before marriage and/or kids came into the picture. There are plenty of non-crazy / flaky girls out there.

Yea and try not to kick his A&^.LOL You sound like you got a handle on this. Do post it does help. Lots of good people on here. Going NC and packing her crap is good you don't look at it and make you think of her. You are the better man and she will see this soon.