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It hurts me that much because she's only coming for her stuff she left like the rabbit, scarf, my Christmas gift to her(bike), and $300 dollars.

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I can't believe you would keep her stuff AND money! I would go psycho on you too!

You want this over? Give her stuff back through mail or a friend and be done with it. Why are you holding on to something that will end the nonsense!!

Unbelievable.

Totally, you are letting her hang this over your head.

Get it back to her, one way or another & you won't have to ever worry about it again.

For me, I simply chucked every single belonging, photo, love note, and reminder right in my dumpster.

Like Tal said Give her stuff back

I have a feeling you may be hanging onto it in the hope she will contact you.

Why else would you even consider hanging on to her things.

I'm not hanging on to the stuff she abandoned, I know that she won't come back. She thought I was weak so it's my time to give her a lesson. She's out there desperate for money and what not. When she got kick out of her friend's house the first time we got separated, I took her back in to my place and told her she doesn't need to pay rent at all and that she could only go to school. She had no place to stay at that time, she lived with me out of convenience that last month and half. Now, this the second time she left again and that's why I don't owe her anything, we broke even. She made me buy a pet, I bought her a bike for christmas, she left a scarf, and wants to claim $300 dollars when she lived for free the last month. I told her specifically, if you walk out that door again, you are not coming back ever again and whatever you leave here stays, and I will change the locks. It hurt me to let her go like that but I don't like to be used and taken advantage for. I know my gut feelings, Valentine's is coming up soon and she's probably thinks that I am going to call her, but I won't. When she's down in her luck, she will contact me because she was dependent on me on everything. She used me a lot and I got caught up.

Those days are over...

Thank you, guys. You have been great, no question about it.

Those days are over...