Have nothing more to do with him.

He is using you big time and you must find the strength to not allow him back in your life.

No contact,and stick to it.

This man is not good for you at all. He’s using and abusing you.

You need to end this relationship. He keeps showing you the kind of person he is... he puts you down, he lies, and he cheats on you. Your relationship is a dead end. I know you probably love him, but he doesn’t seem to care much about you or your feelings, despite what he says. You deserve better. GET OUT FAST AND NEVER TALK TO HIM AGAIN!

Leave him. It's that simple. If he's controlling, and making you feel this way, you need to leave.

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I finally left him after nine months of him treating me like rubbish! We've had no contact for a week now - it ended quite nastily - he hasn't bothered at all which is really unusual for him - he's back on the dating site where we met every night & to see him on there tears me up. A male mate is interested in dating me - he is everything my ex wasn't, but I just can't get my ex out of my head - I dream about him - miss him and am very frustrated because he hasn't been in touch! I am tempted to make contact to have it out with him - he told me constantly that he loved me yet he treated me so badly towards the end. Why do I feel this way and will I ever move on?? At the mo I really want to see him but I know he will reject me - please offer some advice someone xx

This relationship is toxic.

We've been suggesting you to get out for months.

Check out the NC related threads in my signature. It's time for you to move on to bigger and better things in life.

You stay away from the datingsite and keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy.

Heal from the breakup before you start dating a new guy.

Read the stickies at the top of the relationship page for more advice.

Take care.