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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

I've never seen a man with three thumbs...:confused:

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It basically means idiot/dirtbag/slimeball/d!ck.

QUOTE=hheath541;2376634]it basically means idiot/dirtbag/slimeball/d!ck.[/QUOTE]

:o:o thanks Heath.

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

Here ya go:Wanker - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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OH NO:eek: I'm so glad I didn't ask the UPS guy what it was... I started too. When I had to sign for the package. He would have thought I was coming on to him and he's only thirty years old.:o:o sorry guys and gals.. really.

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UPS guy? LOL
You guys are too funny.

Actually, I'm from the south. We don't really use that term either.

I actually just wanted confirmation that I wasn't crazy. This whole incident happened a few days ago and I've since broken up with him.

When you're in a controlling relationship like that, it's hard to listen to your own good judgment. There was a lot of chemistry and good times, but I realized I couldn't stay AND keep my dignity at the same time.

However, I did learn A LOT about how to treat your relationship with respect and next time I'll know how I deserve to be treated. And now I can recognize the signs of emotional manipulation, verbal abuse, and shallow self-interest of a ceaselessly immature adult.

So I think I'm stronger and less naïve. It just took a year to get that mess over with. I have a good idea of what I want from life and what kind of person I want to share it with, so it feels good to let go :)

In the grand scheme of things, a year is nothing. Just be sure to take the time to heal and truly move on before getting into another relationship. The hardest part is knowing when you're ready.