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Originally Posted by sarahbearj

Do you think my father's death has any correlation with why I can't move on from my ex?

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I don't know, do you?

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I almost think that moving away from our town would be good for me...

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Do it.

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Do you think I should burn or return some items that he gave me?

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Burn 'em, definitely.

Burn all his stuff and leave town. Moving isn't extreme, if you believe it is then you'll never do it. You'll feel like you've started over and can finally kick this. Three years? That's a lot of stress to build up, and that can really do a number on your health.

Maybe try putting them in a box and sealing the box up and putting it in your attic or somewhere not easily accesible. Burning items is kind of an extreme but it may help. You don't want to return the items because you don't want to run into him accidentally.

Thanks again to all for your support and help!

You're welcoe Sarah- best of luck to you! Let us know how everything goes.