You move on.

You pick up some hobbies, do some volunteering. Focus on school, or work whatever might keep you busy.

How do you know you love this girl. Have you ever dated? If not then your not really in love. You say you can never be with her? She not like you the same way?

Lots of questions you need to answer.

We never dated but we were in the same school... I say I can't be with her because she moved far away from me and got many new friends in short she forgot that I exist... I don't think she even cares that I exist... I want to forget but am unable as a hobby I use FB but she is there so I constantly get reminded of her about school work I am in colege and scored 76% so I do pay attention to college work meet my friends daily in college and on FB...

Get a hobby other than Facebook-take up a sport if you're not already doing that.
Actively work to get over her.

Oh well I play cricket and videogames but every day I see her profile on FB and am reminded of her... wait I will delete her from my friendlist maybe that will help...

Good thinking,delete her then you won't have to be reminded of her.

Ugh I can't get myself to do that... trust me I tried :(

So long as you don't delete her the constant reminder will be there and it'll slow down your getting over her.

Yeah I guess...

But... how do I get her to remove ME from her friendlist?

Can't you block her?

I can but I don't have the heart to :) :(

It is,of course, up to you, but how long do you want to remain stuck in limbo,when you could move on?

If you remove her from your FB friends list, you're automatically removed from her list. But the question is, are you willing to remove her from your list?

I know that you're not ready to let go of your feelings for her. You still have some false hope. You still believe that you have a chance.

So take whatever time you need to realize that it's time to move on. Once you're ready to move on, follow the no contact rules to help you recover: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...qs-332732.html

Fight the urges to break the rules: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...es-351302.html

Well I still had hope so I occasionaly messaged her on Facebook and she started coming online every day we talked to each other every day on Facebook now I told a good friend of mine about all this... that was my big mistake because he went and told her everything I tried to explain her that he was joking but she won't listen(probably because he kept on messaging her) now the problem is she has blocked me on FB.but I still want to be friends with her what do I do?we have a common friend who knows everything... how do I become friends with her again?

At some point you have to walk away, and leave her alone. Not just for you, but after following this thread, and merging so many about the same thing, its getting obvious your going no where with her, and really do need to turn your attention to something else, at least for a good while. That's to let you have time to put this behind you, and stop this obsessive behavior directed at one person. You can always revisit this issue in a few months, and see where your at, but your stuck now, and need to get UNSTUCK.

I mean you have already spent more than a month trying to be friends, and it has NOT worked at all.

Take a break from this mess. You can't force someone to like you, and when they don't respond back in kind, its time to quite altogether, or make it worse.

You have definitely made it worse.

Repspread Tal. I completely agree with Talaniman.
Take a very long break from a mess that's going nowhere.

OK I guess...

We need to be realistic in life and this just isn't going to happen. Best move on and meet somebody else.

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Originally Posted by amicon

We need to be realistic in life and this just isnt going to happen. Best move on and meet somebody else.

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Now, you're getting the "picture". Sometimes lessons are just really hard to learn...

Thanks!

OK but what do I do about my friend my friend didn't really mean to help me he was just playing a prank doing mischief.