Ask Me Help Desk - Confused about this new guys actions. I have a boyfriend

I suggest NOT jumping from relationship. You need to find yourself alone and be happy alone. If you want true lasting happiness, this is what you should do.

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Originally Posted by tina_tbay

I would like an answer about what everyone thinks this guy thinks about me. I mean I told him about my situation. My boyfriend is nice but cheats and calls my bestfriends at 5 am so I am cheating he drove me to it. I am jsut curious about what people think this other guy I am fooling around with thinks? I would like to be in a relationship with him.

You sound like the classic F-buddy. Guy is bored wants to get his rocks off and gives you a call. Heck you having a boyfriend even adds excitement... like doing it in a public place. Hey no attachements, don't have to date, worry about you nagging... I bet he loves you. Drop a load and push you out at the corner. Come on are you serious?

And your current boyfriend drove you to cheat?! Really... does he drive you over there and drop you off with a twelver of rubbers?

Yeah... Nice... kind of broad I want to bring home for mama to meet.

Whatever imabadman lol I called him and its not like I'm really looking for anything serious I just find him attractive. Not like I'm all nuts about this new guy just saw him out of nowhere one day I harassed him to take me home but whatever that didn't happen. Then I called him the next Friday at like 6 and he picked me up at like 7 with my friend to hang out I've had a boyfriend for 2 years without cheating and before that a boyfriend before that for 5 years. So anyway I shouldn't be trying to defend myself in my mind my relationship is already over. I tried to end it and kick him out along time ago he wouldn't leave so I am looking for a place. Anyhoo thanks for your brutally honest "guy" opinion you sound like sooo many guys I know and wouldn't give the time of day too thanks again

I sense troll.

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Originally Posted by tina_tbay

Whoa lol okay guys I know I have some issues. Your all right I mean I knew all this all along you just need someone else to tell you to realize its true. So thanks again. I will be posting some more questions probably about my screwed up relationships lol see what happens in the next couple weeks.

There's one thing that you'll always get on this site, honesty. We tell it like it is, because we don't have time to sugar coat it.

I'm really glad that you're reading what we write and keeping an open mind, instead of denying the truth.

We're all here to help, sometime that means that we have to be brutally honest. It doesn't always work, but neither does telling someone what they want to hear and not the truth.

I'm glad you decided to stick around. :)

Thanks and I think I'm going to end this thread :-) Kind of made up my mind hope it all works out. Sounds like you guys are real good people, maybe were from different places in the world lol I don't know anyway Im glad I signed up interesting!

Wow you know what you are..

You are lost, cold-hearted, selfish , ( yeah I said it... cus how you act ) who uses her boyfriend for his house and money. And instead of being mature and not so self-centered, and just dumping your boyfriend like a "REAL WOMAN" would have, when she knows that the time has come. You go out and cheat on him with a douchebag you've been messin with for 7 years off and on every time you cross each other paths... ( pathetic! )

In which you think will make everything better in your so called love life ( you probably don't know what love is if you ask me ), but WON'T cause if he is messing with you while you have a boyfriend... what do you think he will do to you?? And you called him "mature"... haha lmao as if! He's light years from that. As of matter of fact "BOTH" of you are.

You can't do bad and expect good to come from it, what I suggest you do is put "BOTH" men in your past and learn to be a Ms. Independent. Well, before you do that much growing up will be needed, because two wrongs don't make a right. Meaning getting back at your current boyfriend for cheating on you will not in turn make your relationship any better.

P [ dot ] s :: excuse my french earlier...
But this post right here is a partial reason why "many" ( not to paint with a broad brush ) woman are called what they are called. Lol, and they say guys are dogs... Now what do you call a female that's ah dawg?? Well, I let you be the judge of that!!

So update. My boyfriend is moving out right away I didn't tell him anything but we just don't get along and he realizes that I don't want to have kids at the moment and he does so now he realizes that its not right. I was worried about moving and affording everything but I can afford this place and its all good just need to get sum furniture~~ Im so pumped YAY thanks everyone

A True Disaster.

Really that's a true disaster to you? Its called life maybe instead of living inside your little box you should try getting one. Its fun and opens up your mind to all kinds of different things.

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Originally Posted by tina_tbay

Really thats a true disaster to you? Its called life maybe instead of living inside your little box you should try getting one. Its fun and opens up your mind to all kinds of different things.

Yea like giving PAIN to people. It's fun to open up or fun to hurt people? Cheating on, cheated on, used by, using by... that's your life and it's a sad one.

I think you need a reality check for your own good. Nothing goods comes out of playing with people.

What do you think happen, if this other guy gets bored of you or you get bored? Either he dumps you or you dump him. Maybe when you are 100 years old, have STD, and lonely and single, you will see the light.