Agrh! Tal I must spread it or you would have got some.
Marjo, I do understand what your saying and I'm saying that your wrong. Go back and reread my original post on this subject. In fact go reread everbody's original posts. The reason your husband doesn't open up and share things with you is not because of him, it's because of you. Look at the reaction your giving him for doing nothing wrong A QUARTER OF A CENTURY ago. I'd think most women would be happy to have a man that opens up and shares with them and you seem to have one and you actually shut him down before he can.
Just a question here and I may totally be off base so don't take this to heart but why are you so jealous? Are you on the up and up? Have you always been faithful?
Either way you need professional counceling. We get what's going on here and your wrong. I'm sorry that's probably not the answer you want, but you asked and we are just being honest. Were not doing it out of spite but rather so that you'll hopefully start looking inward and get some help.