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  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:08 AM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itsamor View Post
    I have no clue the population and yes i work here Im planning on moving to downtown LA but i dont have the money =[

    Please make a guess as to the size of the town? 200, 300, under 1,000 people, 5,000 or more..

    Thanks!
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:13 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itsamor View Post
    I have no clue the population and yes i work here Im planning on moving to downtown LA but i dont have the money =[

    Are you in California now? Can you name the town or city? Or at least one you live near?
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:13 AM
    itsamor

    Over 1,00 in the state the town a couple hundred but I spread through out the entire state and tri states
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:14 AM
    itsamor
    Dc Maryland right now
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:15 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itsamor View Post
    over 1,00 in the state the town a couple hundred but i spread through out the entire state and tri states

    Let's try that in English, please.
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:20 AM
    Clough
    I'll wait until you answer the question that Wondergirl just asked you...
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:22 AM
    itsamor

    S.o.l if you can't comprehend what was trying to say , sorry.
    Why does it frickin matter how many people live here in the first place? I don't think anyone knows. I don't work for the government =]
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:24 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itsamor View Post
    S.o.l if you can't comprehend what was trying to say , sorry.
    Why does it frickin matter how many people live here in the first place? i don't think anyone knows. I dont work for the government =]

    Why L.A.
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:33 AM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itsamor View Post
    S.o.l if you can't comprehend what was trying to say , sorry.
    Why does it frickin matter how many people live here in the first place? i don't think anyone knows. I dont work for the government =]

    If you live in a small town, it's kind of like going to a small school or church. People will generally always remember you for the way that you were...

    When I return to the church where I grew up, I'm still remembered, by quite a few people, as the child and teenager that I was at the time, even though I've grown way beyond the way that I was then...

    It can be a good thing to move on beyond where we grew up!

    Thanks!
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:34 AM
    itsamor

    It's where everytings at.. yea a lot of competition. But the people there are more like me. At least the ones I met over other websites. Just a change of pace. Maybe newyork first... but la's what I really want. I have to live in a city.
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:36 AM
    itsamor
    Yea I want to be someone new. No one knows anything about start my own rep. and a good one at that
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:37 AM
    Clough
    Is Los Angeles closer to where you're at now?

    Thanks!
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:39 AM
    Clough
    You mentioned something earlier about liking to sing. Do you also dance?

    Thanks!
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:40 AM
    itsamor

    Yea I sing, I want to start a band which will be a lot easier to be heard in LA and modeling too.
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:41 AM
    itsamor
    Oh and dancings fun
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:44 AM
    Clough
    Repeat: Is Los Angeles closer to where you're at now?

    Thanks!
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:45 AM
    itsamor

    Nope.. it's longggggggggggggg drive from DC
    I can't even afford a plane ticket. I have rich family too but they won't help me out of course.
  • Oct 4, 2009, 12:55 AM
    nevaeh7

    Hey you are apretty girl underneath all that hiding,what is it that you are hiding from?
    You said that your image make people assume the worst of you and that you style yourself this way to fit in with the types of partners you like!
    So how about styling yourself on what it is that you like! Love yourself and then maybe you will find that people will want to know the REAL YOU also.
    The sarchasm and bluntness towards people will just put them off, life is too short, there is always a time for those kinds of attitudes! However these attitudes used around or with your friends are damaging- and actually these are your own defense mechanism so that people don't get to know who you really are!
    So with that all said, if you want to have friends- try being YOU and start taking these walls down that you have built around yourself and let people in,
    There is a bit I there about loving yourself!! It is true that until you are at a happy place with yourself it difficult to maintain any kind of friendships- if you don't know who you are how can any possible friends know who you are too. And for me personally I like to know who and what my frinds are all about.
    This is all just my opinion of course.
    Goodluck
  • Oct 4, 2009, 01:01 AM
    Clough
    Hi again, itsamor!

    I have some comments to make about styling oneself to fit into society so that a person might be better able to "get ahead". I've had many "looks" in my life that some people might find to be a bit extreme. But, I'd better wait to elaborate about those things until I've had enough rest. I also need to get some rest so that I'm able to get up and play for church in the morning.

    Good night!

    Thanks!
  • Oct 4, 2009, 01:12 AM
    itsamor

    Well I like looking different and that shouldt have a thing to do about people liking me or not

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