Originally Posted by
kristina4495
Hey Stinger-
Thanks for your words of wisdom. I think you really understand where I am coming from.
Here's the thing: I have been in a few long term relationships as well, and just like you said, I always loved the person and we got along just fine, but I knew I didn't want to be with them for the rest of my life. Its completely different with this guy, I just KNOW. That doesn't mean I want to shove marriage and family down his throat, hell, I 'm not even sure if I want kids. But I'm like you where I just want things out on the table, plain and simple. (1.) If he doesn't feel the same way about me, then fine, but allow me to move on and meet someone who does.
I guess the easiest thing to do would just be to suck it up and ASK. Like you said, it seems like he doesn't feel this way and that sucks, but at least I will know. (2.) I just don't want to push him away.