Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Relationships (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=277)
-   -   Help with love? (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=39587)

  • Nov 1, 2006, 01:38 PM
    SandBaby22
    I understand I might be too clingy now but when I want something bad enough I will stop at nothing to get it!! He told me not to trust him not because he isn't trust worthy but because it takes a while to get to gain someone's trust and he wants to take things slow and that is what we are doing but I have been hurt in the past by a cheater so it is going to take me a while to really trust a man again. I will see how we are after a little while longer and if it doesn't work then it was never meant to be... but I really like this guy and I am going to not put 100% of me into him like I have done before I will only end up hurt again!!
  • Nov 1, 2006, 04:42 PM
    Wildcat21
    "I want something bad enough I will stop at nothing to get it!!!!" - well relationships and love do not work that way EVER!! Never. YOU WILL PUSHJ THEM AWAY FOREVER if you do that - that's 100% guaranteed. Always happens.

    See - he told you already - even he knows. I thought he was aplyaer and I didn't even know him. "He told me not to trust him not because he isn't trust worthy"

    I think thisis a short fling. Seriously.
  • Nov 1, 2006, 10:02 PM
    talaniman
    Dating is about fun and doing things that are fun. Being om a ship in the Navy is serious business. A job. So in essence you are in a workplace relationship and they are difficult at best. Now in a little over a month you have all this workplace drama in your relationship and your job and you think there is hope? There are so many red flags going on here that you need to recognise and RUN like hell from. HIGH SCHOOL ON THE HIGH SEAS. Why date someone you don't trust after a month?
  • Nov 1, 2006, 10:06 PM
    Skell
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    Dating is about fun and doing things that are fun. Being om a ship in the Navy is serious business. A job. So in essense you are in a workplace relationship and they are difficult at best. Now in a little over a month you have all this workplace drama in your relationship and your job and you think there is hope? There are so many red flags going on here that you need to recognise and RUN like hell from. HIGH SCHOOL ON THE HIGH SEAS. Why date someone you don't trust after a month?

    Had to spread it Tal, but this is so true.
    Couldn't have said it better myself. Not that I ever could anyway.

    Listen to this. If this doesn't just scream common sense to you then something is wrong!
  • Nov 2, 2006, 10:04 AM
    Wildcat21
    What's the above poster doing? Trying gdrive traffic to that sight?

    Same post over and over.
  • Nov 2, 2006, 12:36 PM
    talaniman
    I got Nearly G in my e-mail now I can't find him.

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:40 AM.