Uffa, One thought keeps flooding my mind.

If she feels the same way about you as you do about her, you would be " one ". Together. There's not much more to consider.
None of your questions would even exist.

Think with your logic not your heart.


By the way, What does NC stand for?

Good Luck, Rewes

Hey guys... finally she called me 4 days ago... she was asking about how am I doing and what happens to me and her during the break we had... she continued the chit chat for 45 minutes without mentioning anything about the relationship and neither do I... so we had a friendly and casual conversation I even made her laugh several times... then when I found out that this is a casual call and she didn't bring up the relationship issue I ended the call telling her that I have to sleep early cause I had something important in the early morning and that's it... so what's your comments on that,guys?!

rewes! NC = No Contact

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Originally Posted by uffa

so whats ur comments on that,guys?!!

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I think she thinks she is letting you down easy, bit by bit, so you don't hate her for dumping you.

NC is to be applied all the time. I think she is trying to string you along. Don't let her. It is only going to her more. Block her number if needed.

Uffa, sounds to me that she is making herself available to you in case you wanted to rekindle the relationship. Or maybe she's just making sure you're still available. Apparently something didn't pan out the way she thought it might.. . Or maybe she's getting settled with herself and all that happened. I'm not saying anything good or bad, just statements for you to think about. Be very careful not to interpret her actions to the way you want them to turn out. ALWAYS look for more than one possibility. Let HER actions lead you to a conclusion. Not YOUR heart.
Let her have as much time as she needs to be sure that her attraction to you was "not just a rebound reaction", as stated in your first posting. Also let her make the next move. It will strengthen your bargaining position.
If you go out with your friends, DON'T be a wall flower.
Keep us informed, Rewes

Sometimes PAYBACK comes in the most un-suspecting ways in this case she is making you pay for what she feels