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  • Aug 16, 2009, 02:31 PM
    this-love

    Yes =D thanks!

    He tells me that like we aren't close because he told me you behave like we knew each other for a little time when we knew each other for a long time.

    I don't want to open up a lot with him because I'm afraid of getting hurt =(... so I think that if I tell him that I want to get to know him better it will turn him off
  • Aug 16, 2009, 02:37 PM
    N0help4u

    Either that means he wants to hold onto the feelings of a new relationship or he wants to turn you into his little puppet.
    Don't tell him you want anything other than to be like you were when things were going good. Yes that scares guys away when you say you want more.
  • Aug 16, 2009, 02:41 PM
    this-love

    Ok thanks a lot. I really appreciate your help.

    I'll clear things with him and let you know how things will go.
  • Aug 16, 2009, 02:43 PM
    N0help4u

    Okay
  • Sep 3, 2009, 02:44 AM
    this-love

    I'm back to tell you what happened and to ask for advice again.

    So I cleared things out with him but he [as always] didn't look so interested. He said he was going out with another girl.

    There he stopped all the contact with me. Now they broke up and he is acting like before with me.

    I am over him now =)... I don't need any loser! Should I tell him to stop talking to me now because I am not his doll?
  • Sep 3, 2009, 02:54 AM
    amicon

    Or just ignore him that's what Id do.no contact at all.
  • Sep 3, 2009, 06:45 AM
    talaniman

    Ignoring him, would be the best way, but telling him your not interested in anything he has to say, since your over him, would be all right to, if he can't take the hint.

    The problem with any contact is stirring up old feelings, and getting false hope that he has changed and things will be okay. But they seldom are.

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