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Originally Posted by pumpkintick

...taken him to dinner a few times, make him photo albums and said sorry x3482347823483084290 times. But he is always fighting with me, he can't get over it. Like I tell him I have flown across the world for him, spend a bunch of money (I am now in debt with my mom from all this) I put my school on hold for 3months. Like he just wont accept anything. I don't know if its me missing something or what.

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He feels that you've given away a part of you that once belonged to him. Whether it's his right doesn't matter, this is what he believes. I've been there, and if I had to do it over again, I would've ended it at the first shred of doubt instead of prolonging it for a year and a half.

Sorry, but there really isn't anything you can do to convince him otherwise, this relationship has run it's course.

And as we don't own other people- walk away .

This guy has something Called "PRIDE"

You just don't go and have sex with another person when you love someone else, and especially after some months only if it was that serious!

Even though you were broken up, its like when some one die, you ask after some months... "um hey can i have his bicycle"?

You just don't do it, personally I would not have taken you back and that's it, even though I see that what he is doing is just manipulating you, saying he wants surprises etc, that's crap tbh.

But yeah, I have much pride myself and I would not forgive that even though it's a break up period doesn't mean you can just run and "****" around everyone you want, But I wouldn't be manipulating you though...