Originally Posted by
Triysle
Sounds to me like she got bored. That's not a dig on you, but frankly the whole "missing out" comment is a major red flag.
You didn't mention how old you two are, but if you're in the younger range (high school/college) she's probably wondering what else is out there. It's a tough situation, but speaking as someone who has been on both ends of that conversation I think your best bet is to give her as much space as you can.
Obviously you still care about her, but right now she is confused about what she wants. You need to show her that you have your own life and respect yourself. Stop being there for her at every opportunity. Make her want you around. If she calls, let the voicemail get it. If she texts, wait a little while to respond.
Maybe it sounds manipulative, but you need to make your life your own again. You sound like the kind of guy who would drop everything to be there for your girl. That's admirable, but in this day and age it's guys like you that get manipulated and used.
Get your life back on track and focus on the things that make you happy. Never initiate contact with her again; let her come to you when she is ready. If she really wants you back, let her decide that for herself. Meanwhile, move on and find happiness on your own.
