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Originally Posted by Survivor07

If there's a place you like to visit or a restaurant you enjoy, you could ask him to "accompany" you. Something simple to get to know each other better.

OR continue to keep him company and wait for him to ask you out. Flirting wouldn't hurt...Maybe he's scared, too.

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How did your good ol southern boy flirt with you? I've never really been around one enough to know how they flirt. :/

Well, I'm guessing the southerners are not ALL the same... but mine would compliment me or find a way to touch my hand or arm.. he'd smile at me and look in my eyes when he talked. Very polite... you know, that southern charm.

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Originally Posted by Survivor07

Well, I'm guessing the southerners are not ALL the same...but mine would compliment me or find a way to touch my hand or arm..he'd smile at me and look in my eyes when he talked. Very polite...you know, that southern charm.

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Oooh this guy does that too! He likes touching my hair a lot. I feel better after reading this. At least I know I'm not hallucinating and imagining his flirting with me! It gives me more confidence, too. But do southern boys like chasing or being asked out?

He likes you love
Unless you own a company that he appreciates

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Originally Posted by Herzdieb

oooh this guy does that too! he likes touching my hair a lot. i feel better after reading this. at least i know im not hallucinating and imagining his flirting with me! it gives me more confidence, too. but do southern boys like chasing or being asked out?

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I don't think it matters what part of the country he's from, he would probably feel flattered if you asked him out. Some say men enjoy the chase... but who knows. I'd say go with honesty, don't play cat and mouse games. Leave subtle hints that you like him and let things happen naturally... OR like I said, just ask him. No harm done if he says no and you gain some experience. My bet is it won't be too long that he asks you. Sounds like he is interested. Enjoy

When a guy says something like that to a girl, it usually means he likes her.

Since the two of you like each other but nobody is making the first move then it is time for you to make it before someone else does.

Simply ask him out some where fun like bowling, miniature golf, rollerskating etc. Some where the two of you can talk but have fun at same time.

OK so we've been writing emails back and forth and he writes paragraphs normally. Well I wrote him one and I slipped in that I like him but kept the rest of it casual.

But he only responded with one sentence. He was laughing about a joke I made. That was it.

Did I blow it?

What exactly did you say? What did he say?

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Originally Posted by Herzdieb

ok so weve been writing emails back and forth and he writes paragraphs normally. well i wrote him one and i slipped in that i like him but kept the rest of it casual.

but he only responded with one sentence. he was laughing about a joke i made. that was it.

did i blow it?

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Hm. Maybe he doesn't know how to respond? I think just the fact he responded was a good thing: if he didn't like you at all, I think he would've left you hanging and never answered.

And, he thinks you're funny. So, you've got that going for you.

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Originally Posted by jjwoodhull

What exactly did you say? What did he say?

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He told me that my name isn't wendy so he won't ever say anything in a angry tone to me. I said he was right and that the only wendy I might resemble is the one that sells the hamburgers. The one related to the fat guy.


He said... lol... fat guy.


:/

I had also said... I hang out with you because I like you... and finished the sentence with normally.

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Originally Posted by Torrid13

Hm. Maybe he doesn't know how to respond? I think just the fact he responded was a good thing: if he didn't like you at all, I think he would've left you hanging and never answered.

And, he thinks you're funny. So, you've got that going for you.

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I feel stupid.

He likes you say take it as a compliment, and see what happens. What's the hurry?

To me it sounds like he enjoys your company but I wouldn't read too much into it because he could mean anything from I'd like to get to know you better to just friends to maybe we could get a relationship going.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

He likes you say take it as a compliment, and see what happens. Whats the hurry??

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I don't know if he likes me that's why I'm asking to see if maybe its going in the right direction. No hurry I just want to know.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

To me it sounds like he enjoys your company but I wouldn't read too much into it because he could mean anything from I'd like to get to know you better to just friends to maybe we could get a relationship going.

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Your right...

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Originally Posted by Herzdieb

i feel stupid.

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Aw, Sweetie. Don't feel stupid. We've all been there. But don't feel stupid yet! He answered, right?

Just because you feel stupid doesn't mean he's not interested in you! I agree with talaniman; just wait a little bit and see what happens. I know you want to know RIGHT NOW (I'm in the same position; I want to make sure a guy likes me, too!) but let's be patient, okay?

If someone is telling you they greatly appreciate your company, I think you're getting somewhere! Especially if it's a guy! Just wait it out a little; you'll know soon enough! :)

Good luck.

Seems to me like he is trying to respect boundaries an take things slow but there is the possibility of a next level... kind of depends also did he enjoy your company talking at his desk at work or at the library all depends on the setting... good luck

Yes it mean he likes you and wants to spend more time with you

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Originally Posted by kaseyatim

seems to me like he is trying to respect boundaries an take things slow but there is the possibility of a next level ... kinda depends also did he enjoy your company talking at his desk at work or at the library all depends onthe setting ... good luck

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I don't mind taking things slow... slows good. Why does the setting matter? What's the difference between work or the library or the movies?