Girlfriend, your first mistake, besides sticking with someone who is so controlling, is trying to change who you are to please someone else.

You want someone to love you for, well... YOU! Compromising on some things is different than trying to completely change every aspect of you. Not going out? Not ever talking to anyone of the opposite sex? Not wearing what you want to wear?

This guy doesn't love you. This guy loves the fact you let him use you as his own personal living doll. He obviously doesn't trust you, doesn't respect your opinions, or care about what's best for you.

And more than likely, the only time your relationship is "magical" is when you're doing exactly what he wants you to do. BAH! Drop this loser. He makes me queasy, and I haven't even met the guy!