Thanks Slapshot! We deleted it awhile back but was just saying how it wasn't a big deal.

Thanks for the heads up though man, much appreciated

I never blamed myspace and I never said I was bitter because of it.But for example new thread just popped up on this board about some girl who (because of facebook) found out her ex was cheating.

And I know several who have had the same thing happen.

Hell,search Google 'myspace ruins relationships'

I can assure you,you will find more cases to that then something like 'cellphone ruined relationship' 'game site ruined relationship'

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Originally Posted by ZoeMarie

My husband and I both have a facebook and a myspace. I even have friends that are guys and he has friends that are girls. No problems here, but then again we have no reasons not to trust each other.

Has your husband given you any reasons not to trust him? If not I'd let it slide.

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No... it was simply my problem yesterday. I got over it and we talked it over. I do think they can be a problem but in this case I just overreacted. I can be wrong... ( doesn't happen often though ;) We both have a myspace and Facebook... I just didn't know about the other one and it took me by surprise. I still think it is weird he didn't mention it. BUT he had no profile pic up and it doesn't look like he has even talked to anyone since he started the account. He said he forgot... I choose to believe him from past experience. Thanks for all the advise.

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Originally Posted by 57373

I never blamed myspace and I never said I was bitter because of it.But for example new thread just popped up on this board about some girl who (because of facebook) found out her ex was cheating.

and I know several who have had the same thing happen.

Hell,search google 'myspace ruins relationships'

I can assure you,you will find more cases to that then something like 'cellphone ruined relationship' 'game site ruined relationship'

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I always perfer the, "Lack of character or interest ruined my relationship." Shame on me for trying to put responsibility on the person and not the freaking internet. :rolleyes:

Again I disagree, while myspace can ruin relationships, it only can if you allow it too. Sure if you are a sneaky SOB, and want to cheat then you can do so. But you can also cheat at work, on leisure, family functions with friends, on the phone or just chat rooms. And myspace doesn't ruin relationships, acting upon cyber feelings will.

i.e.. Meeting up with someone you met on myspace or Facebook. You can tell me all you want that people broke up because they found out they were cheating through myspace, but I can also tell you about the amount of people I know that stay together, even having myspace

Honestly I was feeling pretty foolish for asking the question. I don't know?. I felt a little immature whinning about a myspace page but I DO see how they can be trouble. But I agree with the thought that IF a person wants to cheat... they will and the internet is only one way to meet someone. I guess from personal experience, I have had strange men message me on the site asking to get to know me and they were married. I don't even so much as reply... I guess after seeing other men do it... it made me suspicious. But if a person is going to cheat... myspace, Facebook, etc... is just a helpful tool. They will do it with or without one.

When was the account opened? Before or after you married?

I am frequently asked to go on Facebook and pose as someone else, contact someone, see if he/she answers. Sometimes it's an innocent diversion; sometimes not.

Only you know your husband and what he might or might not do.