You don't know what she will do, neither do we. The message is don't get carried away by your feelings, no matter what a female says.
Whether you're a good guy, or not. The same goes for the good girls too.
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You don't know what she will do, neither do we. The message is don't get carried away by your feelings, no matter what a female says.
Whether you're a good guy, or not. The same goes for the good girls too.
I would like to know why my girlfriend is acting the way she is because she hasn't answered my text messages or phone calls in a week I would like to know from another females perspective why my girl is acting the way she is I talked to her the other day and she told me that she would call me soon but never called me since that day I talked to her so if another female could help me that would be great
How long have you been together and how old are you?
Chances are she wants to be left alone for a bit- I'm not too sure but I'm sensing you're a little clingy.
Sarah
A little more info would be helpful.
Ok first, I'm a guy and you are way too attached to this.
You told us nothing important other than her not calling you is annoying you and playing on your insecurities, and you are having a hard time coping with the situation. My advice relax, and just ask her what she's been up to next time to see her/ talk to her. Be casual about it though.
Maybe she is sick, or a family member died, or she lost her cell phone, grounded off the phone, is confused about how she feels about you, likes some one else (such but it's a possibility.), needs time from you, is just busy with other things, planning something for you to surprise you, doesn't want to be your GF any more, or any number of reasons. Take your pick.
None of us here, male or female, could give you an accurate idea of what she is on about that would be worth considering. We know nothing about her as an individual, in a public setting, on an intamite level, or other wise. How would any one know what she is up to, or thinking with out knowing her?
Sorry to say, but you will just have to wait it out, and talk to her when you can. Good luck, and try to relax. (If you say you can't then you are only fueling the fire that is making you seem so needy. If I were you I'd check that ASAP, and by Check I mean find out why, and dispel it. And no it's not because of her that you are needy, that my friend is deep with in.) Huh, almost poetic... na not reall.
Peace and kindness be with you.
P.S. The idea that other women will know her better then you is based on an assumption that women are all the same, or at least enough to tell you from very little info what your GF is thinking/doing. In Cognitive social theory this is called a Cognitive Defficency. Like having tunnel vision for yourthinking. Be careful with that, as it is most deffinatly deconstructive in any relationtship.
We've been together for about 6months now so sarah I should leave her alone but what I don't understand is why would she tell me that she misses me a lot and loves me if all she's doing is ignoring me
People need time for themselves and alone. Just chill out, go for a walk, or hang with your friends, play video games, this is your time to do what you want use it wisely! :p:D;):cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by Eng299
Well you've already tried calling her and texting her many times. If I had a boyfriend like that I'd have more reason to be ignoring the calls. Nestorian is right you need to keep yourself busy- your girlfriend is!Quote:
Originally Posted by Eng299
Why be the one waiting for her phone call all sad and worried? I bet she's smiling and having fun.
Sarah
How has she not answered your texts or calls in a week but you talked to her the other day?Quote:
Originally Posted by Eng299
Give her the space she needs... it's always good to keep yourself busy so you aren't always waiting on them. Sometimes being always available to the other person, catering to their needs, etc, can come off as unattractive after a while.
First we as men, must show that we are confident enough to handle life with or with out the woman of our so called dreams . They want their own freedoms and our abilities to show we can handle certain requests as men .
When we loose it at this point then they have power over us . Six months has not been that much of a life time commintment, even thoug it can feel as though it were 5 life times. Don't loose yourself bro . Maybe she didn't deserve what you had to offer her.
You don't have a relationship, and have allowed yourself to think you do. That's why your threads were merged, for the whole story to be seen.
Don't start any more about this girl, or they will be deleted. Questions still??? Ask them here.
I am very very confused, this whole thread merging thing is very helpful. 4-5 different threads about different problems.
I'm with you on that buddy this conversation is too hard to keep up with.Quote:
Originally Posted by Romefalls19
The times that I've been ignored by a girl I'm dating, it usually means there's someone else in the picture. She ignores you, so you ignore her.
Your be better off alone. Too many problems and confusion. If you can't sort them out then "how do you expect someone else to?"
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