Agreed :) and good for you girl. I'm proud of you.

Interesting post. I have often suggested to friends based on the value of the item that they let things go and don't go back and get them. I fully understand that your dirt bike isn't something that you want to leave. You do have the right to your items and going after them is reasonable.
The advice to send a friend is great advice. I want to add answer to your question do it ASAP and let him 1. know your serious about moving on and 2. start your healing process.
What sticks out to me is that you are interested in what he thinks of you. Dangerous, your not done. Be careful this is thin ice. Take your time.
Also, I want to ask is this an item that you gave him and are taking back?

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Also, I want to ask is this an item that you gave him and are taking back?

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No, the bike is mine. It has just been at his place forever since that is where we would go riding together.

I would go back and get your stuff back ASAP too. When I left my daughter's father I left with my daughter and as much of her stuff as I could leaving all of my belongings behind which was easily over $10,000. When I went back two weeks later with the cops to his house, all of my things that were worth money were gone. My playstation, all the games, over 500 cds, my TV, all of my stuff that I bought for my daughter was taken back. So, I would go get my things back or have a family member go get them back asap. I am not saying that he is like that and would do that to you, but that was what had happened to me. Good luck.

Oh yea, and as KC said, you know that you are an amazing person and you don't need to prove that to him.