Aww I am sorry to hear this black... she I confused.. I think that you guys need yo re-evaluate your relationship.. you guys need to be on the right page before entering a marriage or it will not last

That's true...

We both got to want it and be ready for it, right now, it seems like that's just me.

She has her issues and fears, and they are real, I understand that. Plus, since she has not ever seen a real good marriage, and she never had a very high regard for males till she met me, all this could be factors that contribute to her fears and indecision.

Its difficult, because we both love each other more than anything, so I guess the question is do we love each other enough to work out our issues before we get married.

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Originally Posted by BlackVY

Thats true...

We both got to want it and be ready for it, right now, it seems like thats just me.

She has her issues and fears, and they are real, I understand that. Plus, since she has not ever seen a real good marriage, and she never had a very high regard for males till she met me, all this could be factors that contribute to her fears and indecision.

Its difficult, because we both love each other more than anything, so I guess the question is do we love each other enough to work out our issues before we get married.

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exactly

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do we love each other enough to work out our issues before we get married.

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Only time and communication will tell Blacky.

It's best to sort all this out now. No one wants to get into a marriage that's doomed for failure due to lack of communication.

There's plenty of time. Better to take that time and do it right then jump in and have it all blow up in your face.

Alty and Nighty right , best work together until your both on the same page.

Cool cool... thanks a lot guys...

Guess we got some stuff to sort out before any wedding bells will be ringing...