Oh my gosh, did he see you coming or what?? He's playing you lady, do not think for a moment that this little Casanova only says these words to you, they are probably scripted and he repeats them to any foolish woman willing to listen.

Go back to the time you met your husband. The time when he was all you can think about. The time when you couldn't wait for him to take you in his arms. Your marital relationship has lost its zest, you need to find it and revive it. You need to take the first step since you are the one who is practically having sex with this guy with your eyes!

Come back to reality, this will lead only to pain and heartbreak. Regret and a bad reputation for you and your family. Don't disrespect your husband this way. Fight for your marriage. Marriage is about commitment, not always about feelings. Feelings come and go. Commitment.

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Originally Posted by Presleygall85

Would you want your husband doing anything you are doing right now with someone other then you? Put your self in his shoes turn the story around.. then ask your self are you being unfaithful???

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For all we know HER husband may be doing the same thing to another married woman across town at the bowling lanes!;)

If you love your husband with your all, telling this guy to "get lost" in so many words, will be no problem for you. You fell in love with your husband for a reason, he's special. You've built a lifetime of memories together. Do you really want to ruin all that you have with your husband over a man that just makes you feel good?

Your husband can make you feel all those things too.

This other man knows you are married, don't you think if he carried for you and the relationship that you have with your husband, that he would have not even have tried to start something before it could begin?

This man you're lusting over may look like he cares about you, but he doesn't. He isn't respecting that you're a married woman, that's the most obvious clue. He's just looking for a woman to stroke his ego.

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For all we know HER husband may be doing the same thing to another married woman across town at the bowling lanes!;)

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Even if this was true which, it isn't, why would that make what she's doing okay? I'd bet he's not. I'd bet he's the nice guy who trusts his wife fully. To bad she doesn't trust him enough to open up to him.

I wouldn't fall for his.. :-

Facciamo l'amore bella,
Sei la piu bella del mondo,
Hi tuo occhi sono come le stelle nel celo
Ti voglio bene..
Bla bla bla.. shall I keep going.

Clicks your fingers, snap out of this trap and come back down to reality...

You have a lot to lose if you fall for his "charm"

I have known many women and men that after being married for many years become complacent in their marriage. Someone comes along, show them lots of time, affection and those little flirtatious, charming things that daters do. You feel alive and special again. A feeling that has been gone for years. This man is married, if you were to be with him, he would be doing it to another woman.

You have a lot at stake to loose, your husbands trust, your children's respect along with your respect for yourself.

You can rekindle the love in your life. Sit next to your husband, look into his eyes as you have been looking at this other man, tell him, slowly, sweetly that you love him. Caress his cheek, be romantic. You may not have to tell him you need some romance from him in your life.

Oh, I have more. Think of what you have to loose, really realize it. Step outside your life, step outside your house and look at it, do you want to loose it? You cannot have both. A quick affair can ruin 18 years of relationships. Then what do you have? Even if you get away with it, it is on your mind and could at any time come out in the open. You have to live with the fact that you cheated and did something terribly wrong. Also, would you be comfortable if your husband were doing what you or this guy is doing? What would you do, how would you feel?
Stay away from him now, or something could happen in a flash that would change your life forever. Think of what it would be like without your family. Lust can ruin your life.

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Originally Posted by Krs

facciamo l'amore bella,
sei la piu bella del mondo,
Hi tuo occhi sono come le stelle nel celo
Ti voglio bene..
bla bla bla.. shall i keep going.

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OOOOOHHHHH, that sounds romantic (whatever you said). Did you do it while you were twisting your long black mustache, giving us the "hey baby what's your sign look" :cool:

:confused:

BIM... me twisting my black long mustache?.

Im a lady hehehe lol

Italian is a very romantic language I love it ;)

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BIM... me twisting my black long mustache??.....

Im a lady hehehe lol

Italian is a very romantic language i love it ;)

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OOOPPPPPs - My Bad :o Sorry for the faux pas. :rolleyes: Did you get the long black mustache thing? I can picture a man with a black artist hat on with a black and white stripped shirt twisting his mustasch. :D

What was it that you said in your previous comment anyway?? Or can it be typed in english?? :eek:

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OOOPPPPPs - My Bad :o Sorry for the faux pas. :rolleyes: Did you get the long black mustache thing? I can picture a man with a black artist hat on with a black and white stripped shirt twisting his mustasch. What was it that you said in your previous comment anyway??? Or can it be typed in english????? :eek :D

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Its OK... I often get confused to a man... lol I'm kidding OK :rolleyes:

facciamo l'amore bella = lets make love bueatiful

sei la piu bella del mondo, = you are the most bueatiful in the world

Hi tuo occhi sono come le stelle nel celo = your eyes are just like the stars in the sky

Ti voglio bene.. = i really care about you

There you go :D

Be nice if she told us what happened.

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Be nice if she told us what happened.

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YES! Kind of like you said in the past. They are not liking what they are hearing so you do not hear back.

We'll see. :rolleyes:

Totally - and we've had a lot of that lately.

These folks know they are doing wrong.