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  • Jun 14, 2009, 09:57 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    One step at a time and maybe things will turn out right. If not, than it's never meant to be... right?
    She says its over, and you think you can change her mind? Good luck with that.

    I suspect your one of those people who think they can knock down a brick wall, by running head first into it, at top speed.

    Let me know how that works out for you.

    My advise get a good helmet, you'll need it.
  • Jun 14, 2009, 11:01 AM
    makapuu
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xdarkninja View Post
    We've seen each other on webcam and all and i made plans to see her so it could be count as offiicial and everything. Like meeting her parents and all ... so that's why i plan on going up there to see what's up.

    ... She could just end it with that guy there cause when i was with her all this time, i was always there for her and talk to her through things and when i broke it off .. she pretty much was left alone so im thinking this is why she said yes to this guy but now maybe realizing he isn't what she expected (its just a assumption which im not gonna make this an excuse)

    You are in an internet relationship. That's all. You want to see her "so it could count as official." I think she already has someone official in her real life. Maybe she wants to keep you on the internet only. You also refer to have been "with her all this time." You're really only with her when she's on the computer.
  • Jun 14, 2009, 11:28 AM
    xdarkninja

    We talk on the phone for about 4 - 6 hours every night and sometimes on computer... for this whole 6 months and I've been leading her through life and helping her through everything. Always been there but now I'm just her friend and still looking for someone around my area. But I really just would love to have her back in my life... and who knows what life could lead too...
  • Jun 14, 2009, 11:34 AM
    talaniman

    Still can't see that brick wall in front of you, can you?
  • Sep 1, 2009, 04:38 AM
    xdarkninja

    Lmao welp... I went up and see her not long ago lol nothing weird happened just kept distanced lol but I removed her from all contact yesturday... lol and she messaged me saying "thanks for removing me from msn and facebook... thanks a lot and i hope your happy. Bye" So I just sent her one thing for my closure "the reason why i removed you is cause i need to move on with my life. I can't keep holding on to a relationship that will never happen. I removed you instead of blocking you so that I can still help you as a friend when you need it."

    Think I did the right thing? I mean there is no point its been 3 month already and friendship seems more like nothing... already given so much chances, she just too stubborn to see it so I guess that is over... XD one less drama to encounter. She already removed me from msn so.. its over now XD Thanks everyone by the way
  • Sep 2, 2009, 01:40 AM
    amicon

    Take care-best of luck.:-)

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